Recent revelations by the Princess of Wales that she is undergoing treatment for cancer have touched on her shock and conflict, as well as her request for privacy as she prioritizes the care of her young family at this difficult time.
The former Duchess of Cambridge offered her support to those facing health challenges, saying:To all who are facing this disease, please do not lose faith or hope in any way. you are not alone. “
How can you help others maintain faith and hope? What's the best way to help someone going through a difficult medical diagnosis feel less alone?
WellSpan's Cancer Nurse Navigator offers these tips:
- listen. If you want to talk, let the person know you're there. Some people are open about their journey and find it helpful to talk about it.
- If they don't want to talk, respect that too. People undergoing a difficult medical exam are likely to experience a range of emotions, from shock to fear to anger, and may still be processing their emotions.
- It's okay if you don't know what to say. Sometimes simple words like “I care about you” or “I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis” are most effective.
- Avoid comments about a person's appearance or weight. If they look good, tell them that.
- Avoid discussing friends or family members who suffer from similar health problems. Each person's journey is unique.
- Respect that person's privacy. Do not share your diagnostic results with anyone unless you have permission.
- Rather than offering generic drugs, “let us know if you need anything”Give specific practical things you can do to help and follow through. Offer to cook a meal for them, take them to medical treatment or doctor's appointments, buy groceries, or run errands for them.
- If they aren't ready or willing to help, don't force it. Some people want to return to normalcy and become independent if possible. Please respect that.
- Let's talk about things other than health. smile. eat ice cream. Share your story.
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